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Hey ik ben een jongen van 14 en ik voel me al 4 jaar ofzo echt kut gewoon. Het begon denk ik toen mijn opa overleed de eerste echte dood in mijn familie voor mij. In het begin was het het ergste ik had geen motivatie geen dicipline ik was blij dat ik toen geen SH kende want dan was ik echt fcked geweest. Maar inplaats van dat at ik alles wat los en vast zat. Dat is de rede dat ik overgewicht heb maar ik weet niet, nu voel ik me iets beter. Ik ben nog steeds een stres eter maar ik weet niet of ik nog steeds een depresie heb.

Ik heb een redelijke familie band, ik zeg alleen weinig over mezelf aan mijn ouders kver hoe ik me voel of wat er aan de hand is. Op school als ik me down gedraag en mijn mentor vraagt wat er is zeg ik gwoon dat ik moe ben. Sinds 4 weken ofzo snij ik mezelf ook is echt kut maar ik weet niet. Alleen de vraag is ik weet niet of ik het fake en gwoon aandacht nodig heb. Of dat ik me echt depresief voel. Het is ook niet dat ik open ben over mijn wonden, ik bedoel sinds ik ben begonnen draag ik alleen maar truien of vesten. Maar hoe kom ik erachter of het echt depresie is of gewoon een tekort aan aandacht?

Hi.. 

 

I personally don't know your life but please don't cut yourself. I understand it must be so hard on you that you chose self harm, but please don't do it. I'm no phycologist so j can't diagnose what you are going through.. It might be depression, burnt out, feeling numb from life or whatever. Don't take yourself lightly and reach out to your parents about this and visit a phycologist. It might be hard explaining to them, but it's much harder to live a life you are gonna regret. 

 

Hope it helps. Have a good day 


Hi.. 

 

I personally don't know your life but please don't cut yourself. I understand it must be so hard on you that you chose self harm, but please don't do it. I'm no phycologist so j can't diagnose what you are going through.. It might be depression, burnt out, feeling numb from life or whatever. Don't take yourself lightly and reach out to your parents about this and visit a phycologist. It might be hard explaining to them, but it's much harder to live a life you are gonna regret. 

 

Hope it helps. Have a good day 

Its like i cant tell my parents cause i dont wanna talk to them about this kind of stuff and i cant tell anyone face to face thats why i do it here. 


 

Hi.. 

 

I understand you don't wanna talk to your parents, but I hope you do someday about this. 

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If you are worried about your stress eating habits, change the food,cause it's very hard quitting. Just eat berries, fruits and vegetables instead of whatever you are having right now. It might be hard too, but a better approach than trying to quit completely. 

 

Try to occupy yourself with different hobbies and see what works for you. I know life must be confusing and hard, but hang in there buddy.

 

Hope it helps. And I'm glad that you atleast tried to reach out here. Hope you have a good day 😊


 

Hi.. 

 

I understand you don't wanna talk to your parents, but I hope you do someday about this. 

  • Kleine aanpassing door De Kindertelefoon i.v.m. forumregel 8. Reclame maken is niet toegestaan.

 

If you are worried about your stress eating habits, change the food,cause it's very hard quitting. Just eat berries, fruits and vegetables instead of whatever you are having right now. It might be hard too, but a better approach than trying to quit completely. 

 

Try to occupy yourself with different hobbies and see what works for you. I know life must be confusing and hard, but hang in there buddy.

 

Hope it helps. And I'm glad that you atleast tried to reach out here. Hope you have a good day 😊 Thank you

 

 


Try online therapy if it's possible to you... There are many websites. Check online and see what fits for you. 


Try online therapy if it's possible to you... There are many websites. Check online and see what fits for you. 

I think this one. 

 


Oh... I mean websites with professional trained therapists 😂. But this is cool too. I tried to tell a website but apparently advertising is not allowed. 


Oh... I mean websites with professional trained therapists 😂. But this is cool too. I tried to tell a website but apparently advertising is not allowed. 

Ah understandible. But one qeustion i dont know if youre ok with it. But what if you cut youreself and youre parents want you to go with them in the jaccuzi. What do you do if you dont want them to see youre cuts?


jo ik weet niet of je op een sport zit of hobby maar probeer er mss extra veel tijd in te steken als je je weer kut voelt 


Um..

I would personally suggest that you tell that what really happened. But if you don't want to, maybe try to buy some waterproof foundation, if the cuts are small and cover it up. Or don't get into the jacuzzi... 

Hope it helps 


jo ik weet niet of je op een sport zit of hobby maar probeer er mss extra veel tijd in te steken als je je weer kut voelt 

Jo ja jk zit op tennis zlleen kheb niet echt iemand om mee te spelen buitenom lessen😅😭 maar thx

 


Um..

I would personally suggest that you tell that what really happened. But if you don't want to, maybe try to buy some waterproof foundation, if the cuts are small and cover it up. Or don't get into the jacuzzi... 

Hope it helps 

They are kinda long. But thx for the invested time to help me.


Or maybe you can lie to your parents that cut yourself by mistake while trying to shave or something, cause you wanted to try shaving like your friends did... 


Yeah i say its my cats fault. Thx


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