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mild abuse?

  • May 20, 2025
  • 3 reacties
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My mom is generally a good mom but since this year she has been very strict sometimes and she often annoys me a lot, and thats normal right but when I say something she doesnt care until I shout.

She gets really mad sometimes and then so do I and I shout or slam the door and she comes in and hurts me, sometimes I get bad scratches,

today this happened and she threw my lamp on the floor and I was crying, later she came to apologise but shes done this too much so I told her to go away but she couldnt accept that and threw the remaining pieces of my lamp in the bin (I couldve fixed it).

I am feeling pretty down lately with all this stress and cry more often now.

3 reacties

Tover01
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  • Ster
  • May 20, 2025

Hey!  I think itś not okey that she does this to you, She is your mum and should give you a safe feeling and a nice home. She acted too harsh and i think you have the right to tell her that. And if this problem remains, maybe you can ask someone in your family for advise? Your grandparents perhaps ? Or a teacher at your school? I think for you it is best to get help and support with this problem, and your mum too. I hope my english was good enough en that things will get better for you!

with kind regards, Tover xxx


Lot_KT
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  • De Kindertelefoon
  • May 21, 2025

Hey anonymoususerneedshelp5,

 

You did very good by sharing your story! We can see that you’re currently in a difficult situation. Remember that you’re not alone. You can call De Kindertelefoon every day from 11.00 to 21.00 (0800-0432) or chat with us if you want to share your story or look at how to improve your situation. You can also contact Veilig Thuis by chatting or calling them (0800-2000). Again, you did very good by sharing this!

We wish you the best!

 

Lot (De Kindertelefoon)


  • May 21, 2025

Hii ​@anonymoususerneedshelp5 

My advise is to go talk to your mom. Maybe she can explain why she’s so strict all of a sudden.

If anything happens, feel free to call or chat with the kindertelefoon. You’re welcome on this forum too of course❤

We will help you!!!!!

I hope you and your mom are able to find a solution for this problem.

I totally agree with ​@Tover01 😁❤

I hope you have a nice evening!!

-Eendje (I don’t know how to finish properly in English haha sorry❤)